How to be a Secular Person? Are you secular?

 I don't know why but a dogmatic religious person always hate to a secular one, because they don't know secular exactly. In the mind of orthodox religious person, secular one is the inimical or anti of the religion. and I don't feel any hesitation to call inexperienced and un-mature thought of their mind. Actually they( dogmatic religious person either Hindu or Muslim) don't know real meaning of being a secular person.

As far as I compare secular person to the secular state, as a secular state do every things for every religion without any discrimination (as mentioned in constitution of India) like that a secular person respect all religion, never denies to be a part of any celebration of any religion, never hate to any religion.
Yes, they (secular person) official have a religion on their document but they free from the orthodox rituals of religion by itself because they don't want to follow. Then what's wrong with it ??

A religion never compel a person to do so what he does not like. Religion is that which can be easily accepted. If any custom or rituals of a religion is not easily accepted by a person then it's not mean he has not any faith in that religion.

If you have a believe in yourself that You are a secular person then....
1- You should have a respect towards every religion as well as your birth religion.
2-You should not hate to any religion, or the people of that religion.
3- You should follow only those rituals and customs which You feel better and easy for you in your birth religion.
4-You should not create any hatred among the people on the basis of religion.
5-You should oppose all the bad practices in your birth religion as well as other religion.
5- You should not have any hesitation to be part of ceremony of any religion, or go to any religion place of any religion.

Dear friends just imagine once, if everyone would understand the real and exact meaning of religion.
That man is not for religion but religion is for man, then there would not be existence of hate on the ground of religion.
People around us are engaged in to prove their religion as a best religion, and that they are going to any extent. They are setting in hatred among the people towards another religion.

I think religion matters only till that extant, which of the way I  choose for the adoration of God, in what way I will have marriage, in which way I will disposed my dead body, only.
If marriage beyond my birth religion its not mean I am anti-religion, its mean I feel comfort in that way so.
A secular person means he is not bound by any religion as orthodox persons are bound. He does not hate to any religion as dogmatic religious person do. He has respect towards all religion which a "kattar dharmik" person don't have.
So I believe to be a secular person.